Perhaps the self is the one we understand the least. How do you see yourself clearly, when you are so invested in yourself and your survival? It is far easier to see others from the outside, then look at ourselves from the inside.
And if that is so – then how do you know whether the action you are taking (or not taking) is an act of self-sabotage or self-care?
The problem with self-sabotage is that half the time, we aren’t even aware that we are doing it – destroying the dreams in our hearts, the things that matter to us most deeply. We are most convincing too, enrolling others in so they can agree with us.
What is not well-known is that the key to self-sabotage is that we get something out of it.